4017 The Moment Everything Changed

Mar 30, 2026

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Ever had a moment when the everyday noise around you fades away, and suddenly you realize there's a deeper question lurking beneath all the surface chatter and chaos? Not about the usual daily choices, but something that cuts to the core of who you are, where you are going, and who you are becoming. Those moments don't come often, but when they do, they shake everything up and force you to reckon with what really matters. It's in those rare instances that the story of your life can take a sharp turn—if you're willing to face what's really going on beneath the surface, the moment everything changed.

This is Holy Week—for those who walk by faith, not by sight—a time heavy with the weight of history and meaning. As I reflect on the final days leading up to the crucifixion of Jesus, I can't help but think about the tension in every thought and decision of that week.

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So many moments could have turned out differently, depending on the choices made before them. That "moment everything changed" was a defining pivot not just in a story that shaped history, but in spiritual reality itself.

Have you ever experienced a moment like that in your own life? A time when something just clicked inwardly, and you sensed that your path was about to shift forever?

Most of us never grasp the magnitude of those moments in advance. We live through them, and only later recognize their impact.

But what if you could? What if you gave yourself the space, even the permission, to wrestle with the unknown before the change hits? To reflect deeply when answers aren't clear, and decisions aren't obvious? How might that shift the outcomes you experience?

Jesus faced this struggle in every breath during that week. Fully God and fully man, He carried the weight of eternal purpose and human uncertainty.

His mindset was defined by surrender and clarity, but we don't often consider the mental wrestling He did ahead of the cross.

Yet, I believe God leaves us clues to live with that kind of intentional awareness.

Romans 12:2 tells us, "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." This renewal is where perspective shifts and life-changing choices become possible.

You need to dig deeper into your thinking.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Dig deeper into your thinking!

So how do you dig deeper in your thinking—almost illogical, maybe even uncomfortable, but profoundly powerful?

Here are three practices to get you started:

Ask Brutally Honest Questions. Don't settle for surface answers. Ask yourself, "Why am I doing this?" and "What am I avoiding by staying the same?" The truth you uncover will steer your next steps.
Create Space for Reflection Daily. Silence or journaling—even just five minutes—helps you detect the whispers of your deeper thoughts and divine nudges. It's in the quiet that clarity grows.
Surrender Control to Embrace Possibility. Fighting for certainty can blind you to new directions. Letting go—even when it doesn't make perfect sense—opens doors to unexpected breakthroughs.

As you continue through Holy Week, use Jesus' mindset as an example to challenge your own. Pose specific questions about why you do what you do. This isn't wishful thinking—it's strategic mental work that can lead to better choices, a better life.

Look to Jesus, who accepted the ultimate gift of obedience and love. If you accept His gift, know this: you now hold eternal life in your hands.

This week is your invitation to pause, reflect, and decide. Because often, all it takes is one moment to change everything.

"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"

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