The Art of Charm 204: AoC Toolbox | Signs of Attraction
Aug 4, 2013
AJ, Johnny, and Justin from The Art of Charm Crew discuss the signs of attraction. They cover recognizing signs of interest, how to communicate your interest without being awkward, and ramping things up physically. They also touch on the logistics of making things happen at the end of the night. The chapter descriptions include approaching with confidence and building trust and mutual interest.
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Interest Creates A Platform
- Showing a small amount of interest lets her commit and open up beyond banter.
- Mutual ramping of interest creates a platform for deeper rapport and qualification.
Listen And Acknowledge Sharing
- Watch for prolonged eye contact, sharing, and trusting disclosures as attraction signals.
- Acknowledge and appreciate her self-disclosures instead of rapid-fire interviewing.
Read Positive Body Language
- Notice positive body language: facing you, touching, leaning in, and taking up space.
- Use those signals as permission to escalate physical closeness slowly.