The Brian Lehrer Show Pets and Relationships
Mar 23, 2026
Callers share wild pet-related dating rules and ultimatums. Stories include a must-have-cats dating requirement, a Pomeranian that sparks jealousy, and an allergy that mysteriously eased for love. Listeners also recount meet-cute moments started by dogs and surprising pet mishaps that brought people together.
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Ask About Pets Early In Dating
- Do ask about pets early when dating to avoid later conflicts.
- Brian Lehrer cites Jessie Buckley's viral ultimatum story where she told her partner to get rid of cats or lose her, showing upfront clarity matters.
Pets Function As Social Compatibility Tests
- Pets serve as informal relationship tests and social filters when meeting new people.
- Brian Lehrer suggests people use their pet's reaction to a date as a cue for compatibility, like skipping a third date if a cat objects.
Profile Requirement Saved A Marriage
- Allison put a clear pet requirement in her dating profile to screen partners.
- She required tolerating cats, married the man who accepted that condition and stayed together nearly 20 years.