The New Age Sage Podcast #93 - This Is Why You Keep Attracting TOXIC Relationships (The Hard Truth About LOVE)
Jan 22, 2025
In this insightful discussion, listeners explore the idea that exes serve as mirrors reflecting our unresolved issues. The importance of taking radical accountability for repeated toxic patterns is emphasized. Personal anecdotes reveal how recognizing one’s role in relationship dynamics can lead to healing. Tips on identifying triggers and transforming pain into purpose are shared, alongside methods for re-establishing inner validation. Ultimately, the talk inspires a shift from victimhood to empowerment, paving the way for healthier love.
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Map Patterns, Not Physical Types
- Map your exes and write the energetic patterns that repeatedly hurt you instead of physical traits.
- Identify which behaviors caused your deepest triggers to reveal your unconscious blueprint.
Childhood Blueprints Drive Adult Love
- Childhood templates (e.g., hot-and-cold parenting) become adult romantic blueprints.
- Awareness alone didn't stop Lucas; unconscious drives kept repeating until deeper work occurred.
Use The Twin Test To Spot Trauma
- Ask whether you'd choose a healthy 'twin' of your usual type to reveal if you're drawn to trauma.
- Use this mental experiment to test whether attraction is wound-driven or real.