How to Be a Better Human How to have great sex (w/ Siphumeze Khundayi and Tiffany Mugo) (re-release)
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Apr 13, 2026 Siphumeze Khundayi, theater maker and artist who runs workshops on sexuality across Africa, and Tiffany Mugo, writer and co-founder of HOLAAfrica and author on pleasure, discuss sexual shame, creating safe spaces, cultural context, and how to begin exploring your own pleasure. They talk communication, consent, and practical steps for starting sexual self-discovery.
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University Theatre Sparked Their Partnership
- Tiffany and Siphumeze met through university theatre and later reconnected over shared projects, which led to their 12-year relationship and founding HOLA Africa.
- Their origin story includes repeated campus encounters, a shared stage, and years of overlapping events before dating.
Context Determines How Safe Sex Spaces Operate
- Geographical and cultural context shapes how people access and engage with sexual-health spaces, so HOLA Africa tailors outreach country-by-country.
- They avoid public posts about workshops, instead partnering with trusted local organizations to protect participants.
Ancestral Practices Included Sexual Education
- Precolonial African societies had institutionalized sexual education and women-centered practices that taught pleasure and social cues.
- HOLA Africa sees these historical models as templates to reclaim spaces that normalize pleasure and instruction.
