The Jordan Harbinger Show 1256: Cheatin' Heart Yearns for Return to the Start | Feedback Friday
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Dec 12, 2025 A listener grapples with the fallout of a cheating affair, torn between a new boyfriend and lingering love for her ex. The hosts delve into the importance of therapy before making big commitments and share tips on communicating conflicted feelings. Another story reveals a sibling dilemma involving a problematic brother living rent-free in an inherited house, prompting discussions about boundaries and legal options. The show also tackles the ethics of messing with pig-butchering scammers, highlighting their ties to human trafficking.
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Affair Ended A 13-Year Marriage
- She had an affair that ended a 13-year marriage and moved in with that man about a year and a half later.
- After almost three years together she still finds herself in love with her ex and confused about marrying her boyfriend.
Bring Shame Into The Open To Change Patterns
- Healing requires bringing hidden shame into conversation with the right people so patterns can change.
- New actions create new data that let you revise beliefs and produce different outcomes.
How To Tell Your Partner You're Conflicted
- When ready, frame honesty as process: explain confusion, steps you're taking, and what you need moving forward.
- Offer specifics: therapy, timeline, and whether you want to pause engagement talks.
