Problem Solved with Jeff Guenther and Alex Moskovich I Slept With My Boss, Therapists Analyzing Dreams & Solving Problems
Mar 17, 2026
They unpack vivid, sometimes disturbing dreams and explore what dream imagery might symbolize. Conversations include dreaming about workplace affairs, shadow impulses, and integrating forbidden desires. They also tackle disclosure and safer-sex communication in non-monogamy. Pop culture moments and therapy approaches to couples work round out the lively, provocative discussion.
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Traumatic Dream Where Home Rejects The Survivor
- Jeff dreamed he was a middle-aged woman who returned home after being raped and was rejected by her family.
- The dream repeated with homelessness and fear, and Jeff described waking terrified and imagining dying on the street until he mentally rewrote a revenge/empowerment ending.
Home Symbolizes Psyche And Trauma Alters Belonging
- Alex interprets the dream as symbolism: home equals psyche/cohesion and the assault represents a loss of agency that changes the dream-self.
- Returning with the truth destabilizes the family (kids scared, husband unsure), suggesting themes of being seen but not held and the need to 'kill' a shameful part to reclaim power.
Finish The Dream To Transform Shame Into Agency
- Alex suggests finishing the dream as a therapeutic technique to discover desired outcomes and parts that must die or transform.
- Jeff's imagined ending (avenging attackers and building street community) implies killing the helpless/shame part to reclaim agency.