286. Q&A: My Approach to Date Nights, Clutter, Sourdough & Large Family Life + More Home Build Decisions

Apr 22, 2025

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INSIGHT

Marriage Perfection Is Overrated

Lisa emphasizes not putting undue pressure on marriage to look perfect in busy seasons of life.
She stresses doing the best you can without guilt in challenging situations like leaving a toddler overnight.

ADVICE

Skip Weddings Without Guilt

Don’t guilt yourself about skipping weddings if leaving a toddler overnight isn’t feasible.
Choose what works for your family and prioritize your child’s comfort during early parenting stages.

ANECDOTE

Quiet Moments Define Marriage

Lisa shares her experience of in-home and out-of-home date nights with her husband.
She explains that sometimes quiet togetherness without much conversation is perfectly fine in marriage.

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In this solo Q&A episode, I’m diving into your most-asked questions about motherhood, homemaking, and our new farmhouse build. From figuring out how to prioritize marriage when you have little ones, to managing clutter and paper piles, to designing a kitchen that actually works for a real family—I’m sharing what’s working (and what’s not) in our home right now. I also cover topics like breastfeeding while pregnant, sourdough fermentation timing, pantry organization, and how we’re thinking through long-term homesteading plans. If you're navigating the beautiful chaos of family life while trying to live intentionally, this episode is for you.

In this episode, we cover:

Navigating weddings and events while co-sleeping and breastfeeding a baby or toddler
Normalizing having a great marriage with less “perfect” marriage moments in busy seasons
How to have a relaxing in-home date night and why it might actually be better
Kitchen and pantry flow: am I worried it will be inconvenient to keep the fridge inside the pantry?
Design uncertainty and the challenge of visualizing space before living in it
Listener tip: what two products every mom should have on hand for allergic reactions
Fermenting water kefir safely without explosions
Plans to plant fruit trees and long-term property development goals
How I avoid countertop clutter and what we do with important documents to keep them from piling up
Naturally weaning a toddler when I become pregnant with the next child
Why I am choosing old-house charm even if it's not always the most practical or convenient
Is it better to long ferment sourdough bread with a small amount of starter?
Troubleshooting issues with gritty texture in bread made with freshly-milled flour
How I handle going out in public with kids who are constantly getting their clothes dirty

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RESOURCES MENTIONED

Listen to my conversation with Katie Voetberg on episode 190 of the podcast

Check out my conversation with Katie & Elisha on their podcast, Now That We’re a Family

NTWAF episode on their recent home build

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Master the rhythm of sourdough with confidence in my Simple Sourdough course

Gain the sewing knowledge and skills every homemaker needs in my Simple Sewing series

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Keep all my favorite sourdough recipes at your fingertips in my Daily Sourdough cookbook

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