The Mating Grounds Podcast Girls Assume I'm A Player Because Of My Appearance, What Do I Do?
Dec 16, 2014
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Caller Faces 'Player' Assumptions
- The caller is a 25-year-old attractive man who women assume is a player before talking to him.
- He experiences guarded reactions and occasional disappointment when he's not the expected player.
Treat High Attractiveness As An Advantage
- Embrace being attractive; it's a high-value problem that opens short-term mating opportunities.
- Be grateful for easy access and focus on skills that convert attention into outcomes.
Host Observations Of Male Catcalling
- Tucker and colleagues observe attractive men often get approached and catcalled by women.
- He contrasts this with his own rarity of receiving such attention to illustrate variability.