Strictly Anonymous Confessions

1400 - Nate on Pegging and Prostate Orgasms

Mar 18, 2026
A candid conversation about introducing pegging to a partner and how a careful, planned first session can unfold. Detailed talk of prostate play techniques, tools and toys used, and how different sensations compare. Practical gear, lube and safety tips are shared along with myths and relationship dynamics around anal play.
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ANECDOTE

How Nate First Tried Pegging With His Wife

  • Nate introduced pegging to his wife via a text and they tried it for the first time on a Valentine's weekend after buying a medium Tantus dildo and a basic harness.
  • He describes the first session as slow, well-lubed, and intensely pleasurable with multiple prostate orgasms before finishing manually.
INSIGHT

Prostate Orgasms Are A Whole Body Experience

  • Prostate orgasms feel qualitatively different from penile orgasms, often starting in the diaphragm and spreading through the torso and thighs.
  • Nate reports whole-body clenching and a sensation that travels from under the belly button downward, distinct from PIV orgasms.
ADVICE

Buy Quality Toys And A Reliable Harness

  • Prepare with research, buy 100% silicone toys and a decent harness rather than the cheapest kit to avoid frustration.
  • Nate recommends a medium Tantus starter dildo and upgrading the harness if beginners find it unwieldy.
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