LATE BLOOMERS TOO LOUD, TOO BRIGHT, TOO MUCH: A neurodivergent guide to sensory overload
Feb 25, 2026
They unpack sensory overload through autistic and ADHD lenses. Everyday triggers like squeaky pens, shouty music, bright lights, and strange food textures come up. They talk tactile horrors from unglazed ceramics to sweaty feet and misophonia from chewing. Conversation vs announcement noise and limits around touch also feature.
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Diagnosis Opened Permission To Stop Masking
- Rox describes discovering new sensory reactions after her autism diagnosis and how everyday tasks like clearing gooey food from the sink became unbearable.
- She links this to 'unmasking' and permission to stop forcing herself, noting previously she ran life on autopilot.
Unvarnished Ceramics Trigger Physical Aversion
- Rich describes a tactile aversion to unvarnished ceramics that looks smooth but feels micro-sandy and sends shivers through him.
- He stresses the cruelty because he loves ceramics yet cannot touch certain finishes.
Squeaky Felt Pens Cause Physical Shudder
- Rox recounts a viscous squeak from a felt-tip pen on a shiny card that induces a physical shudder and internal shivering.
- She compares it to nails on a chalkboard and says it's not just 'annoying' but bodily.