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Mirrored Abandonment
- Jessica explains that the mother's lack of communication about law school created boundary issues.
- The son mirrored back the perceived abandonment, leading to a destructive dynamic.
Apologize and Own It
- Jessica advises the mother to apologize to her son, acknowledging the hurt caused by her actions during law school.
- She emphasizes using "I" statements to own her behavior and avoid defensiveness.
Sandwich Method
- When the son is vague, the mother should lead him to clarity using the "sandwich method."
- This involves positive framing around a direct request for clear communication.