
Conversations How Aunty Rhonda learnt to cry
Nov 20, 2025
Aunty Rhonda Collard-Spratt, a Yamatji-Noongar elder and Stolen Generations survivor, shares her profound journey from mission life to reconnecting with her roots. She reflects on childhood escapes into the bush for solace and the impact of systemic racism. Rhonda recounts her transformative bond with music and how it healed her, alongside her struggles with emotional detachment from family. Delving into her artistic endeavors, she discusses her children's book series that honors her culture, while advocating for understanding and acceptance in modern Australia.
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Becoming A Hairdresser In Perth
- At 16 Rhonda trained as a hairdresser in Perth and worked under foster arrangements while still under the Native Act.
- She earned $8 weekly, paid $8 board, and was left with 50 cents for herself and 50 cents 'for Jesus.'
Marriage, Policing And Emotional Repair
- Marriage to an Aboriginal shearer-turned-policeman revealed new family dynamics and racial tensions within the force.
- Rhonda apologised later for jealousy-driven behaviour linked to her childhood lack of attachment and received forgiveness.
Reconnecting With Her Mother
- When reunited as an adult, Rhonda spent three months with her mother learning art, bark gathering and family stories.
- Her mother revealed Rhonda's totem (the curlew) and cultural practices Rhonda had missed as a child.

