Into The Light Podcast EP:15 Jonathan Holmes talks about a flourishing sex life in marriage, even after the damage of pornography.
May 2, 2025
Jonathan Holmes, a professional counselor and the Founder of Fieldstone Counselling, shares valuable insights on nurturing a healthy sex life in marriage despite challenges like pornography. He discusses the transformative power of open communication and the importance of addressing misconceptions about intimacy. Holmes emphasizes the need for adaptability in sexual frequency and tackling issues like painful sex among women. His hopeful message encourages couples to align their relationship with biblical values and seek resources for deeper sexual understanding.
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Pursue with Patience and Love
- Pursue your spouse with understanding and gentle questions rather than demands about sexual desire.
- Follow Christ’s example of steadfast, unconditional love in marital pursuit.
Seek Medical Help for Pain
- Women experiencing painful sex should consult a trusted female medical professional for diagnosis and treatment.
- Shame around painful sex is common but can be addressed through medical help and conversation.
Prepare Thoroughly in Premarital Counseling
- Premarital counseling should include detailed, honest education about sexual expectations and hygiene.
- Disclose and get tested for STDs when sexual history outside the relationship exists.
