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547. Exploring Midlife and Living Well Through Philosophy feat. Kieran Setiya

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May 30, 2025
Kieran Setiya, a Professor of Philosophy at MIT and author, delves into the practical applications of philosophical thought in everyday life. He examines the convergence of philosophy and self-help, proposing their reintegration to tackle life's challenges. Setiya discusses midlife crises and the balance between goal-oriented activities and mindfulness. He critiques simplistic philosophies, emphasizing the importance of recognizing suffering and complexity. The conversation also touches on the philosophy of desire, choice, and the role of introspection in personal development.
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Value and Regret in Midlife

  • Midlife involves mourning options foreclosed by life decisions.
  • Regret stems from value pluralism where lost options are genuinely valuable in different ways.
ADVICE

Embrace Life's Shape Without Illusion

  • Accept attachment to one's life shape without denying it could have been better.
  • Use philosophical reflection to align emotions with rational acceptance of choices.
ADVICE

Philosophy as Cognitive Therapy

  • Use philosophical cognitive behavioral therapy to counteract negative thoughts about regret.
  • Understand that intellectual acceptance may precede emotional recalibration over time.
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