Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda Episode 358: Preparing for Marriage (feat. Christian Bevere)
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Feb 9, 2026 
Christian Bevere, author and speaker known for 'Future Husband, Present Prayers,' shares her story and why praying for a spouse shaped her writing. Conversation covers waiting well in singleness, discerning calling to singleness, what she prays for a future husband, and practical prayer habits to shape relationships and personal growth.
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The Husband's Bible Story
- Christian kept a "Husband's Bible" filled with prayers and letters and gave it to her husband on their wedding day.
- That tangible hope launched her book and podcast about praying for a future spouse.
Pray Rather Than Perform
- Pray for your desire for marriage and surrender outcomes to God's sovereignty instead of trying to force results.
- Use prayer to move out of your own strength and invite God's wisdom into dating and singleness.
Singleness Can Be Formative
- Don't assume prolonged singleness means God denies you marriage; often it's a season of growth or a reroute.
- Contend, pursue healing, and remain open to God reshaping timing or purpose.
