The Mating Grounds Podcast

Girls Think I'm Gay. What do I do?

Jul 1, 2015
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ADVICE

Address The Misperception Right Away

  • Address perceptions immediately by joking about them so the sexual intent is clear.
  • Signal you're straight early so you can gauge her reaction and avoid wasted time.
ANECDOTE

SNL Reference To Explain The Stereotype

  • Tucker recalls the SNL skit 'Lyle the Affeminate Heterosexual' as a cultural touchpoint.
  • He uses it to illustrate how voice and manner can trigger misperceptions.
ADVICE

Use Personality-Fit Humor To Signal Interest

  • Use humor that fits your personality to defuse the stereotype and signal interest.
  • Try lines like admitting people assume you're gay then clarifying you're attracted to women.
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