
In Bed With The Right Episode 118 -- The Romantasy Boom
Jan 27, 2026
Abby Kluchin, psychoanalytic scholar and host of Ordinary Unhappiness, explores the romantasy boom. She traces its rise, fan-driven amplification on BookTok, and why pandemic reading found comfort in sweeping fantasy-romance mixes. Conversations cover formulaic heroine types, trauma-healing arcs, and how serial, sensual worldbuilding creates immersive, therapeutic reading experiences.
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Fulfillment Promise Versus Interminability
- Romantasy promises narrative telos and payoff, unlike interminable political fantasies.
- This fulfilled promise is central to reader satisfaction and commercial success.
Recurring Tropes That Enable Identification
- Common tropes: young woman transported into magical world, enemies-to-lovers, fated mates, explicit sex.
- These patterns create repeatable reader identification and formulaic comfort.
Agency Versus Fate In Heroines' Arcs
- Romantasy both affirms and subverts classic fairy-tale passivity: heroines are agential but fate-driven.
- Femininity is often earned through suffering rather than given as default beauty.
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Intro
00:00 • 2min
What is romantasy and why it matters
02:00 • 54sec
Key examples: ACOTAR and Fourth Wing
02:54 • 3min
Reader experience: immersion and comfort
05:51 • 2min
BookTok, fan communities, and participatory fandom
07:29 • 2min
Romantasy as remix and pastiche
09:56 • 2min
Genre antecedents and marketing age categories
12:01 • 2min
Plot patterns: telos, fulfillment, and seriality
14:23 • 3min
Character types: 'strong' heroines and thin interiority
17:27 • 4min
Fourth Wing plot and dragon appeal
21:01 • 3min
Scale and commercial success
24:06 • 2min
Tropes: enemies-to-lovers and telepathy mishaps
26:04 • 3min
Age gaps, fantasy maturity, and domestic labor
28:49 • 2min
Feminist gestures amid heteronormativity
30:19 • 3min
Repetition, pacing, and reader submission
33:11 • 2min
Romantasy and trauma narratives
35:32 • 20min
Healing plots: empowerment and regaining embodiment
55:06 • 12min
Fantasy as adult play and therapeutic space
01:06:48 • 4min
Outro
01:10:45 • 30sec

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Trauma and recovery

Judith Lewis Herman


Alison Mathews


Judith Herman
In this groundbreaking work, Judith Lewis Herman places individual experiences of trauma within a political frame, drawing parallels between private horrors like child abuse and public horrors like war.
The book details a three-stage sequence of trauma treatment and recovery: establishing safety, working through the trauma, and reconnecting with oneself and the world.
Herman emphasizes the importance of community in healing and the need for a secure base for recovery.
The book includes a new epilogue assessing changes in understanding and treating trauma over the last three decades.

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A Court of Silver Flames

Sarah J Maas
This book follows Nesta Archeron, Feyre's sister, as she struggles to find her place in the world of the High Fae after the war with Hybern.
Forced to train with Cassian, a battle-scarred warrior, Nesta must confront her past traumas and the growing feelings between her and Cassian.
Meanwhile, the treacherous human queens forge a new alliance, threatening the peace in Prythian, and Nesta and Cassian's relationship becomes crucial in halting this danger.
The story delves into themes of self-forgiveness, mental healing, and the deepening emotional and physical bond between Nesta and Cassian.

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The Body Keeps the Score
Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma


Bessel van der Kolk
In this book, Dr. Bessel van der Kolk uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma reshapes both the body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust.
He explores various treatments, including neurofeedback, meditation, sports, drama, and yoga, which activate the brain’s natural neuroplasticity to aid in recovery.
The book emphasizes the power of relationships in both causing and healing trauma and offers hope through descriptions of novel approaches to treatment.
It is based on Dr. van der Kolk’s own research and that of other leading specialists in the field.

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A Court of Thorns and Roses

Sarah J Maas
In this novel, Feyre Archeron, a young huntress, kills a wolf that turns out to be an immortal faerie.
As punishment, she is taken to the faerie realm of Prythian by Tamlin, a High Lord of the Spring Court.
Initially hostile, Feyre's feelings for Tamlin transform into a fiery passion as she adapts to her new home.
However, an ancient, wicked shadow threatens the faerie lands, and Feyre must find a way to stop it to save Tamlin and his world.
The book is a retelling inspired by fairy tales such as 'Beauty and the Beast' and 'Tam Lin', and it combines elements of romance, adventure, and high fantasy.

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Outlander


Diana Gabaldon
Published in 1991, 'Outlander' is the first novel in the 'Outlander' series by Diana Gabaldon.
The story follows Claire Randall, a former combat nurse during WWII, who on a second honeymoon in Scotland with her husband Frank, touches an ancient stone and is transported back in time to 1743.
There, she encounters the dashing Jamie Fraser and becomes embroiled in the lives of the Scottish Clan MacKenzie.
As Claire navigates her new surroundings, she must balance her loyalty to her husband in the 20th century with her growing feelings for Jamie.
The novel blends elements of historical fiction, romance, adventure, and fantasy, and has been praised for its detailed historical settings and compelling characters.

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Twilight


Dean Koontz
Twilight Eyes follows Slim Mackenzie, a 17-year-old on the run after killing his uncle, who possesses 'twilight eyes' that allow him to see evil beings called Goblins.
Slim joins the Sombra Carnival and becomes embroiled in a plot to prevent a catastrophic event involving the carnival and a town infested with Goblins.
The novel is divided into two parts, with the first half set in the carnival and the second half focusing on Slim and his allies investigating and battling the Goblins.

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Fourth Wing


Rebecca Yarros
In 'Fourth Wing,' twenty-year-old Violet Sorrengail is forced by her mother, a commanding general, to join the elite dragon riders at Basgiath War College.
Despite her physical weaknesses due to a chronic illness similar to Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, Violet must use her intelligence and wit to survive the competitive and deadly environment.
She faces numerous challenges, including sparring matches, the Gauntlet climbing challenge, and battles in the War Games.
Alongside her struggles, Violet uncovers secrets about the leadership and forms complex relationships with her peers, including the ruthless but charismatic wingleader Xaden Riorson.
The book is part of the Empyrean series and combines elements of fantasy, adventure, and romance.
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Woman Hating


Andrea Dworkin

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The mists of Avalon


Marion Zimmer Bradley
In 'The Mists of Avalon', Marion Zimmer Bradley reimagines the Arthurian legend through the eyes of key female figures such as Morgaine (Morgan le Fay), Gwenhwyfar (Guinevere), Viviane, Morgause, and Igraine.
The novel explores the conflict between the old pagan religions and the rising influence of Christianity in Britain.
Morgaine, a priestess of the Mother Goddess, is the central character, and her story spans generations, detailing her training in Avalon, her relationships, and her battles to preserve the pagan way of life.
The book also delves into the complex love triangles and the political and spiritual upheavals of the time, offering a nuanced and feminist perspective on the traditional Arthurian tale.

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Bear

Marian Engel
For this episode, Moira and Adrian are joined by Abby Kluchin from the Ordinary Unhappiness podcast to discuss a recent publishing phenomenon and its implications for gender politics: romantasy, a genre that's been emerging over the last 10 years with renewed force. Series like Sarah J. Maas's A Court of Thorns and Roses and the Empyrian-novels by Rebecca Yarros mix fantasy tropes with costume drama and pretty explicit sex scenes -- and they rely on a very particular kind of trauma heroine, and what seems to be a very particular understanding of gendered trauma.

