Business Bros – Episode 57 – Giving Up?

In this episode Hernan goes at it alone. Join the journey as he talks about his #ShyGuy "Make them choose" theory in Poker and some thoughts to stay away from when dealing with attention. Take action and join the conversation on Facebook @SiasFirst or on Twitter @BusinessBrosPod and if you want more info visit our website www.SiasFirst.com. Music by www.bensound.com Shy Guy On vacation to Vegas Playing Poker with Shy Guy Make the other person choose People are bad at making choices Afraid of being wrong You are not honest with yourself You don’t know who you are You don’t know what you want You are afraid others will figure that out about you. You complain that people are haters People talk to much shit Why are you listening You are trying to impress other people Keeping up with the jones Wasting money on material things Why? To impress those people who you said you didn’t like them Here is the secret: They don’t know who they are either They don’t know what they want either They are afraid that you are going to figure them out Their defense? Talk shit and guess what, you do it too! You need to gain perspective You live a life of privilege You are truly blessed to be alive You already won the lottery What are you doing with the limited time you have on this planet? Your alive for a short period of time and dead a very long time No one will remember you in time What are you afraid of? Your legacy? You have no legacy because you have not done anything yet You keep stopping yourself from doing anything People ask me all the time… I want to make a lot of money, what should I do? The number one thing you need to do before you can be of service to other people is to dedicate yourself to action. If you are thinking about starting a business or investing in something you are missing the point You will miss 100% of the shot you don’t take. Future you is going to look back at you and what will you say to yourself? I should of, I could of, If I, OR WORSE: He stopped me, she stopped me, my kids, my wife, my work, EXCUSES You always find a way to… Take some time off Clock out at 5PM Binge watch netflix Be humble Understand that you are in control of you You have the ability to make something Everything is your fault NO ONE ELSES Be thankful to those who engage with you good or bad Thank them for their opinions Show gratitude Ask them what it is that you can do to help them Ignore the haters Attention is a true gift good or bad Even those who have negative things to say, are listening Stop focusing your attention on the opinions of others BE YOURSELF Figure out what that is Decide on what you want to do AND DO IT! It doesn’t have to be your passion It does have to be something you are willing to get up and do, when you don’t want to do it and do it, at a high level.