The Pain Most Women Can’t Explain: How a Father’s Relationship Impacts Faith with Rick Altizer

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Mar 17, 2026

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In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Theo McManigle welcomes filmmaker, musician, and storyteller Rick Altizer to discuss his newest documentary, He Calls Me Daughter. Building on themes introduced in his earlier film Show Me the Father, Rick explores how broken or distant relationships with earthly fathers can deeply shape the way people relate to God.

Rick shares the heart behind the film and how a season of prayer led him to create a project specifically designed to help women process father wounds and rediscover their identity as beloved daughters of God. Through powerful testimonies and interviews with leaders such as Alex Kendrick, Shonda Pierce, Meg Meeker, and others, the documentary highlights both the pain of fractured father relationships and the hope found in the gospel.

The conversation also addresses how fathers, husbands, and men more broadly can play a role in healing. Rick explains how behaviors that objectify women can create spiritual barriers that make it harder for wounded women to trust Christ. Ultimately, the film points viewers back to the truth that God’s fatherhood is perfect, unchanging, and rooted in unconditional love.

This episode offers encouragement for fathers, daughters, and families alike—reminding listeners that while earthly fathers may fail, the love and identity offered through Christ remain secure.

✨ Episode Topics Discussed

• Rick Altizer’s background as a recording artist and documentary filmmaker
• The inspiration behind the documentary He Calls Me Daughter
• How father wounds affect identity and spiritual life
• Why many women struggle to relate to God as Father
• The difference between being a “human doing” versus resting in identity
• How men’s behavior can influence how women view God
• Practical ways fathers can build stronger relationships with daughters
• The importance of listening, apologizing, and being emotionally present
• How the gospel restores identity and healing for wounded hearts
• Using film, curriculum, and counseling resources as tools for healing

📘 Resources Mentioned

He Calls Me Daughter – https://hecallsmedaughter.org
Global Counseling Network – https://www.globalcounselingnetwork.com/ Rick Altizer- https://rickaltizer.com/

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – The Ache Many Women Carry but Cannot Name
03:27 – Rick’s Background in Music and Filmmaking
04:18 – The Documentary, Show Me the Father
05:35 – The Vision for He Calls Me Daughter
09:25 – Understanding the Father Wound
13:32 – Practical Advice for Fathers with Daughters
18:43 – How Objectification Impacts Faith
21:59 – Why Identity Comes from the Father
26:11 – God Is Sovereign, Good, and Trustworthy
35:32 – Personal Stories of Loss and Faith
40:28 – Turning Pain into a Gift for Others
45:05 – Curriculum and Ministry Resources
47:54 – Final Encouragement and Prayer

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