On Purpose with Jay Shetty Humble the Poet ON: How to Get Out Your Own Way to Find Love & Breaking Society's Common Myths About Relationships
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Dec 26, 2022 
Humble the Poet, a Toronto-based spoken word artist and author, dives into the intricate dynamics of love and relationships. He emphasizes the importance of self-worth in setting boundaries and fostering genuine connections. The conversation covers the role of vulnerability, the impact of social media on identity, and the significance of self-respect over external validation. They explore humor in friendship, challenge societal norms about love, and stress that true intimacy is built on understanding rather than superficial traits.
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Rejection and Boundaries
- Feeling rejected triggers ancient anxieties of danger, making us prioritize likeability.
- However, establishing boundaries, though it may reduce likeability, is crucial for love.
Loneliness and Self-Connection
- We often seek external sources to fix loneliness rather than addressing the lack of self-connection.
- Build an authentic connection with yourself through activities like dancing or expressing gratitude for your body.
Setting Boundaries
- Set boundaries, even if it means appearing less nice, to avoid resentment.
- Those who truly love you will respect your boundaries, while others may leave.
