
London Review Bookshop Podcast Miriam Toews & Octavia Bright: A Truce That Is Not Peace
Apr 6, 2026
Miriam Toews, acclaimed novelist whose work probes grief and family, reads from and discusses her new non-fiction A Truce That Is Not Peace. She reflects on why the book began with a festival question. Conversations range across fiction versus nonfiction, writing toward silence, sibling letters, humour amid mourning, and the Wind Museum metaphor.
01:00:52
Writing As Either Disappearance Or Deep Dwelling
- Writing can be both an attempt to externalize inner pain and an inward plunge to stay with it.
- Miriam said fiction lets you 'disappear yourself' while this nonfiction kept her inside, confronting material rather than disguising it.
Silence As Withholding Not Malice
- Silence in family members can be non-hostile withholding rooted in psychic pain, not malice.
- Miriam frames both her father and sister's silence as language's limits and possible precursors to disappearance.
Accept Embarrassment As Part Of Memoir Work
- Accept the mortification of autobiographical work as an occupational hazard and proceed anyway.
- Miriam says treating embarrassment as part of the job lets you use your life as material despite feeling exposed.
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Intro
00:00 • 1min
Why the book began from a festival question
01:04 • 2min
Fiction versus nonfiction and voice
03:08 • 4min
Writing toward silence and loss
07:37 • 1min
Becoming another to understand a death
08:49 • 1min
Sisterly pact and the origin of letter-writing
10:12 • 3min
Humour, rage and the limits of language
13:29 • 2min
Embarrassment in memoir and its necessity
15:31 • 4min
Why writers live with uncertainty
19:11 • 3min
Reading letters from youth
21:54 • 7min
Early voice, intimacy and comic irreverence
29:06 • 42sec
Clowning, performance and compassion
29:48 • 3min
Quotations as company in the book
33:05 • 2min
The title's origin and radical acceptance
34:57 • 5min
The Wind Museum metaphor
39:40 • 3min
Audience reactions and practical ideas
42:31 • 1min
Books that saved her and reading poets
43:50 • 3min
Writing All My Puny Sorrows and its difficulty
46:25 • 2min
Writing as a mode of mourning
48:30 • 4min
Growing up Mennonite and early literary influences
52:17 • 3min
Process: notes, typing and who she writes for
55:40 • 2min
Outro
57:48 • 16sec
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'Radical Light' (the phrase referenced) evokes Wiman's interest in revelation and the interplay of darkness and illumination in human life.
His essays and poems often confront mortality and the consolations of religious and aesthetic imagination, offering candid reflection grounded in formal craft.
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Toews cites his prose essay as giving the title phrase that resonated for her book's theme of unresolved truth and loss.
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A Truce That Is Not Peace


Miriam Toews

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Elf, a talented pianist, suffers from depression and repeatedly requests her sister's help in ending her life, while Yoli, a writer of young-adult novels, struggles to cope with her own failures and the weight of her sister's despair.
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Swiv's grandmother teaches her about life through humorous anecdotes and unconventional lessons, helping her navigate the challenges of growing up.
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In her first work of non-fiction A Truce That Is Not Peace (4th Estate), acclaimed novelist Miriam Toews spirals out from a question asked of her at a literary festival in Mexico City – ‘Why do you write?’ – in a dazzling exploration of grief, guilt, futility and creativity. Toews read from her work, and discussed it with Octavia Bright, author of This Ragged Grace.

