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Miriam Toews & Octavia Bright: A Truce That Is Not Peace

Apr 6, 2026
Miriam Toews, acclaimed novelist whose work probes grief and family, reads from and discusses her new non-fiction A Truce That Is Not Peace. She reflects on why the book began with a festival question. Conversations range across fiction versus nonfiction, writing toward silence, sibling letters, humour amid mourning, and the Wind Museum metaphor.
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INSIGHT

Writing As Either Disappearance Or Deep Dwelling

  • Writing can be both an attempt to externalize inner pain and an inward plunge to stay with it.
  • Miriam said fiction lets you 'disappear yourself' while this nonfiction kept her inside, confronting material rather than disguising it.
INSIGHT

Silence As Withholding Not Malice

  • Silence in family members can be non-hostile withholding rooted in psychic pain, not malice.
  • Miriam frames both her father and sister's silence as language's limits and possible precursors to disappearance.
ADVICE

Accept Embarrassment As Part Of Memoir Work

  • Accept the mortification of autobiographical work as an occupational hazard and proceed anyway.
  • Miriam says treating embarrassment as part of the job lets you use your life as material despite feeling exposed.
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