Transplants by Laura Peruchi - Conversations With Women Thriving Abroad #3 From Au Pair to Fashion Stylist in NYC | Raquel Paiva | Brazil → USA
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Sep 16, 2025 Raquel Paiva, a Brazilian stylist in NYC, shares her inspiring journey from au pair to working with stars like Anne Hathaway. She discusses the challenges of stepping out of her comfort zone, including overcoming homelessness and cultural shocks. Raquel opens up about her personal growth, embracing her identity, and the transformative power of love and support. Her story is a testament to resilience, highlighting the importance of community and the drive to pursue dreams in a vibrant new world.
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Take The Step Before Ready
- Do take big steps even when not fully prepared because the situation will force you to grow and learn.
- Embrace the uncertainty instead of waiting to see the whole staircase.
Au Pair: Work, Not Vacation
- The au pair role includes real responsibilities: childcare, cooking, laundry, and emotional labor.
- Compensation is low but living costs drop since lodging and often meals are provided, making it viable.
Finding Identity Away From Home
- Raquel used New York's anonymity to explore her sexuality and come out while distant from family pressures.
- The city's diversity and gay friend circle accelerated her self-acceptance and coming-out process.