Help Me, I'm Single with Blaine Anderson Fired For Being "Too Hot," Yet Still Single... w/ Annie Lederman
Nov 12, 2025
Jason Alabaster, former Bachelorette contestant and LA tennis coach from Memphis, and Annie Lederman, comedian known for blunt, story-driven humor. They talk about Jason getting fired for being “too hot,” his reality TV and dating aftermath, wild first-date moments like microdosing at the Getty, and Annie’s memorable breakup-then-stay story. Quick, candid, and often hilarious takes on modern single life.
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Fired For Being 'Too Hot'
- Jason recounts being fired from a tennis coaching job because the husband thought he was "too hot."
- He insists he did nothing inappropriate and was surprised when the client stopped calling back.
Playing A Role Sabotages Relationships
- Jason realized after his long relationship he had been playing a role to fit his partner's expectations.
- That pattern led to resentment and was the reason he sought therapy.
How He Ended Up On The Bachelorette
- Jason says a friend submitted him to The Bachelorette and he accepted while bored at his Wall Street job.
- He describes getting the call at work, telling his boss, and being encouraged to go on the show.