The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women Female Psychology: How Women's Attraction REALLY Works
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Jun 17, 2021 A dating coach breaks down why women's attraction ties to survivability signals like confidence and social status. He contrasts stated preferences with automatic attraction and uses a dimmer analogy to explain how attraction rises or falls. Timing differences between instant male attraction and slower female attraction are explored. Practical triggers like context, repeated contact, and nonverbal cues are highlighted.
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Attraction Is About Survivability
- Female attraction is wired to survivability, so women seek traits that signal ability to provide healthy offspring.
- Mark Singh explains traits like confidence, decisiveness, social success, and resources map to genetic fitness for kids.
Stated Preferences Often Lose To Instinct
- Attraction isn't a conscious choice and what women say they want often differs from who they actually choose.
- Mark Singh notes rational preferences (job, kindness) can lose to demonstrated high-value behaviors like pre-selection and leadership.
Male Preference Tracks Health Signals In Women
- Physical health cues strongly influence male attraction to women because they signal fertility and child survivability.
- Singh bluntly states overweight shows poor health and reduces male attraction due to perceived risks to offspring.