The Thomistic Institute

Friendship: The Art of Striving and Thriving Together – Sr. Mary Madeline Todd, O.P.

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Mar 16, 2026
Sr. Mary Madeline Todd, O.P., a Dominican theologian and teacher with a doctorate in Sacred Theology, explores friendship through Aristotle and Aquinas. She discusses types of friendship, virtuous mutuality, benevolence as willing another's good, sacrifice, shared life and conversation, and how prayer and communion with Christ transform and deepen human bonds.
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INSIGHT

Virtuous Friendship Loves For The Other's Sake

  • True or virtuous friendship loves the other for their own sake rather than for benefits received.
  • Sr. Mary Madeline Todd and Aquinas treat benevolence—willing the other's good—as the friendship foundation.
ADVICE

Learn Goodness And Persevere To Will Friend's Good

  • Do learn what true goods are and act to will them for friends by cultivating prudence and perseverance.
  • Sr. Mary Madeline Todd recommends study, choosing goods, and sticking to them to build benevolence and friendship capacity.
ADVICE

Cultivate Emotional Integrity In Friendships

  • Try to develop emotional integrity: let reason shape emotions so you stay in relationships through hard conversations.
  • Sr. Mary Madeline Todd ties emotional discipline to virtues so friends don't abandon relationships when feelings fluctuate.
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