Smart Girl Dumb Questions Is There A War on Men?
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May 5, 2026 
Richard Reeves, director of the American Institute for Men & Boys and researcher on men’s issues, joins to tackle modern masculinity. They cover looksmaxing and online masculinities. They debate tradwife trends, boys’ falling literacy, rising young male suicide, male bonding and the Epstein files. They talk policy ideas like male-focused outreach, education fixes, and when a gender lens matters.
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Conflicting Online Messages Create Male Identity Anxiety
- Young men face conflicting online messages toggling between 'be more masculine' and 'be less masculine'.
- Richard Reeves likens it to pinball where competing voices (looksmaxxing vs therapy) create identity anxiety for young men.
Fix Male Representation In Mental Health Campaigns
- Do reframe public health messaging and services to reach men, e.g., show men in suicide-prevention materials.
- Reeves cites a state that reversed an 80% female-focused outreach despite 80% of suicides being men.
K–12 Literacy Gap Fuels Male Labor Struggles
- Educational shifts disadvantage boys: girls lead literacy by about a year and dominate top performers while boys populate bottom performers.
- Reeves links this K–12 literacy gap to later labor market struggles as traditional male jobs decline.
