The Art of Charm 258: AoC Toolbox | Where to Meet High-Quality Women
May 7, 2014
Learn where and how to meet high-quality women in the digital age, including strategies for bars and nightclubs, alternative options like art events and dance classes, the importance of online dating, joining yoga or Pilates classes, and the benefits of volunteering.
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Choose Venues Women Actually Like
- Use Yelp to find bars with positive female reviews and events like birthdays or bachelorettes.
- Prioritize venues where women feel safe and enjoy themselves to increase quality encounters.
Become The Local People Notice
- Become a regular by arriving early, chatting up staff, and tipping well to build rapport.
- Use propinquity: be visible, have fun, and staff and regulars will help open social opportunities.
Work The Room, Don't Chase It
- Post up near high-traffic 'elbow' zones of a bar so people naturally enter your social bubble.
- Let the room work for you instead of running laps; be seen having fun and people will gravitate to you.