98: Divorce and Money: What Every Woman in Midlife Needs to Know with Gabriella Martinelli

If you’re in midlife and thinking about divorce—or already in the thick of it—there’s something crucial you need to know:

Divorce isn’t just a legal process. It’s an emotional and financial one, too. And most women walk into it unprepared… especially when it comes to money.

In this week’s episode I’m joined by CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst) Gabriella Martinelli, and we’re talking about what every woman needs to understand before making major relationship decisions.

We cover:

✅ Why leading with knowledge instead of fear changes everything

✅ The big financial blind spots women face in midlife divorce

✅ Why your attorney is not your financial advisor (and what to do instead)

✅ The mindset shift that puts you back in control—even when emotions run high

✅ And why asking for help isn’t weakness—it’s strategy

If you’re navigating this chapter (or know someone who is), this episode is a must-listen.

You don’t have to do this alone—and you definitely don’t have to do it in the dark.

With love and strength, keep moving forward,

Debbie

P.S. Check out the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/YcTfpz13oFw

Here's Gabriella's bio:

Gabriella Martinelli is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) and founder of Ever After Wealth®. With 21 years of experience in divorce finance, including 16 working alongside top attorneys, Gabriella helps individuals and professionals navigate the financial complexities of divorce with clarity and confidence. She makes complex financial topics easy to understand, offering real-world strategies that empower listeners to take control of their financial future.

To connect with Gabriella:

Website: https://www.everafterwealth.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/everafterwealth/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EverAfterWealth/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/everafterwealth

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