The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women

My 5 Step Checklist to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend: Don't Skip This One!

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Mar 31, 2026
A fast breakdown of the five-step plan for asking a girl to be your girlfriend. Topics include reframing yourself as the prize, the 80/100 rule to stay in masculine energy, why you should let her bring up commitment, timing strategies like waiting several weeks, and the playful note technique to prompt her to commit.
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INSIGHT

You Are The Prize Mindset

  • Reframe dating so you see yourself as the prize and she submits an application.
  • Mark Singh argues this mindset prevents over-eagerness and keeps men evaluating whether a woman is worthy before committing.
ADVICE

Follow The 80/100 Rule

  • Use the 80/100 rule: give her 80% of what she gives you to stay in masculine energy.
  • Example: if she wants to hang out five times, you hang out four to lead and reduce neediness.
ADVICE

Slow Down Before Committing

  • Slow down and don't rush to label someone your soulmate or confess love early.
  • Mark Singh recommends waiting, keeping options, and vetting through conflict to see real character over weeks/months.
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