Life Kit How to 'shift' your emotions
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Feb 17, 2026 
Ethan Kross, psychologist, neuroscientist, and author of Shift, studies emotion regulation and self-control. He explains what it means to shift emotions. He discusses when to confront feelings versus strategically avoid them. He covers using environment, reframing comparisons, venting’s limits, and planning with WHOOP to steer emotions toward useful outcomes.
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Pain As Useful Signal
- Mariel cut her finger while peeling potatoes before an interview and had to jump on the call minutes later.
- Ethan uses that to illustrate how pain (physical or emotional) protects and informs us.
Emotions Provide Data, Not Just Distress
- Emotions—even "bad" ones—provide useful information but become harmful when too intense, short, or long.
- Shifting means changing intensity, duration, or moving between emotions to match your goals.
Use Strategic Avoidance
- Avoidance isn't always bad; strategically stepping away can reduce intensity and give perspective.
- Return later to reassess and either find the problem faded or easier to solve.
