Mamamia Out Loud Do I Matter? & The Bathroom Taboo
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Feb 6, 2026 They unpack the rising 'mattering' movement and why people scramble to feel seen during life changes. They debate hotel bathrooms losing privacy and the awkwardness of shared spaces. They argue whether Valentine’s Day or birthdays sting more for singles. They also celebrate sparkly hair trends like hair tinsel and clip-in glitter for a bit of fun.
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Mattering Is Tribal, Not Just Personal
- Mattering is tribal and survival-based, not merely self-esteem.
- Mia Freedman explains transitions like empty nest or menopause can erode mattering and force rebuilding.
Ask For Help To Build Mattering
- Ask others for help to 'extend a sense of mattering' and give them purpose.
- Small requests (like asking a parent to fix a door) confer value to both parties and strengthen connection.
Too Much Mattering Can Be Draining
- There's a second problem: mattering too much can also leave people hollow when care is thankless.
- Care roles (aging parents, small children) often lack visible appreciation, weakening fulfillment.
