Modern Wisdom #506 - Elizabeth Stokoe - The Science Of Analysing Conversations
Jul 30, 2022
Elizabeth Stokoe, a Professor of Social Interaction, shares her expertise on the fascinating mechanics of conversation. Discover the hidden power of pauses and filler words in everyday dialogue. Learn what phrases not to use on first dates and how language can shape perceptions and interactions. Elizabeth also reveals insights from hostage negotiations and discusses the impact of technology on our communication. Expect a blend of humor and depth as she unpacks the art and science of talking, making it clear that every word counts!
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Words Reveal Nature
- People's words reveal their nature more than actions.
- Rudeness, kindness, etc., are primarily judged through spoken interaction.
The Power of Silence
- Recognize that silences in conversations are not neutral; they communicate.
- Long silences feel strange because they are statistically rare in typical conversations.
Discomfort of Silence
- Silences disrupt conversational rhythm, making us uncomfortable.
- We constantly analyze responses, leading to self-repair or question redesign when delays occur.