Sex With Emily Dating Apps, Red Flags & Bad Habits w/ Logan Ury
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Feb 11, 2025 
Logan Ury, the author of 'How to Not Die Alone' and director of Relationship Science at Hinge, dives into the world of modern dating. She debunks the myth of 'the spark' and shares what actually sustains relationships. Logan explains the effects of attachment styles on dating outcomes and introduces different dater types—romanticizers, maximizers, and hesitators. With practical tips for creating compelling dating profiles and avoiding dealbreakers, she emphasizes the importance of informed decision-making for deeper connections.
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The 37% Rule
- Use the 37% rule to avoid maximizing and endless searching for "the one."
- Commit to someone as good as or better than the best person you dated in the first 37% of your dating life.
Letting Go of Exes
- Shut the door on your exes to create space for new relationships.
- Irreversible decisions often lead to greater happiness than reversible ones.
Maximizers vs. Satisficers
- Become a satisficer by setting high standards but committing when they are met.
- Focus on how a decision makes you feel, not on whether it's objectively "the best."
