Raising Good Humans S2 Ep 37: Think Again Parenting: Adam Grant Translating His Leadership Tools Into Parenting Tools
Jan 14, 2022
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Mismatch Between Stated Values And Messages
- Parents often value happiness and kindness but communicate achievement to their children.
- This mismatch shapes kids' perceptions of parental priorities unless families intentionally change conversations.
Translate Values Into Habits
- Turn family values into daily routines by having kids brainstorm family values and concrete habits.
- Connect rituals to principles so children see why the family does certain things.
Use Short Scripts To Clarify Needs
- Use simple scripts like 'Do you want my advice or do you want me to listen?' to find what your child needs.
- Provide empathy first; only offer solutions after they feel heard.