The Mating Grounds Podcast

Helping Joe, Episode 9

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Apr 2, 2015
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INSIGHT

High Energy Is A Testing Signal

  • High immediate energy from a woman is often bait to see if a man will match intensity and lead.
  • Low-energy replies can make women recalibrate and lose interest quickly.
ADVICE

Flip The Energy By Leading

  • Flip the energy by taking the lead: when she suggests a selfie, take out your phone and say "Let's take a picture together" instead of asking permission.
  • Be assertive in playful ways to change dynamics.
ADVICE

Dress Neutral, Not Trying Hard

  • Aim for neutral, clean, well-fitting clothes that don't distract or signal failed effort.
  • Simpler outfits (plain tees, clean jeans, clean shoes) beat trying to look fashionable and failing.
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