Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties Episode 43: Everybody's Dumpable
May 10, 2019
This week dives into the awkwardness of being a designated driver for a hookup and the mixed signals that can leave you feeling used. They also tackle the emotional toll of frequent breakups and share tips on reclaiming self-worth. With empathy, they explore the complexities of discovering secret relationships and emphasize the importance of setting boundaries. Plus, listeners get a sneak peek into the world of open relationships with helpful resources to consider! Tune in for a blend of humor and heart.
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Switch Therapists And Ask Friends
- You don't have to stick with a therapist who isn't right; change therapists freely.
- Ask friends for referrals to queer-friendly, trusted providers.
DD'ing, Mixed Signals, And No Reply
- Keith dated a guy who sent mixed signals, then danced and hooked up with a Tinder hookup while Keith DD'ed.
- Keith felt used, messaged his feelings, and got no response, prompting him to delete apps and focus on himself.
Set Boundaries And Demand Better
- Keep clear boundaries: state what you want and stop dating while hurt if needed.
- Demand partners who meet your needs instead of tolerating inconsistent behavior.
