Something became clearer this morning when I awoke. It was that there are no "them" that condition us. I used to think that my parents did most of my early conditioning but of course they didn't. This body/mind does/creates the conditions - yes, based on its environment, but the actual "data" it absorbs is its own. This was a Wow.
I thought that if they had conditioned me then the same would be true for my children and I had felt guilty. But just as I had no control over my parenting, I/they had no control over what was accepted as true.
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