At Home with the Beveres I Asked My Mother-In-Law The Secret To A Healthy Sex Life
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Mar 19, 2026 
Lisa Bevere, author and ministry leader who speaks on marriage and sexuality, shares personal experience and pastoral counsel. They tackle shame around female desire. Conversations cover rebuilding intimacy through service and communication. Practical topics include healing from past wounds, worship to soothe triggers, scheduling connection, and protecting marriage from pornography.
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Shame Turns Sex Into Resentment
- Many Christian women feel silent shame doing sex from obligation rather than desire.
- Julie highlights this fosters resentment, not intimacy, and scripture has been weaponized against women.
Prayer In The First Apartment Reset Our Sex Life
- Lisa and John confessed early in marriage they had sinful sexual histories and prayed together to reawaken sexuality rightly.
- She describes joining hands in their first apartment asking God to forgive and rebuild intimacy away from lust.
Heal Awakened Sexuality Through Worship
- Early exposure to pornography or sexual abuse often 'awakens' sexuality in a violated way that must be healed.
- Lisa uses Zephaniah 3:17 and worship to 'quiet' and reawaken sexuality in a healthy manner.