Life is inevitably filled with suffering, and the podcast dives into its many forms, from illness to loss. It emphasizes the need for mental preparedness and resilience, reminding listeners to embrace the reality of hardship. Stoic wisdom guides the discussion, encouraging us to strengthen our minds against life's challenges. By confronting the possibility of future suffering, we can better equip ourselves to handle whatever comes our way. This thought-provoking exploration invites listeners to face life's trials head-on.
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Suffering Is Inevitable
Suffering is a commonplace and inevitable part of life, both big and small.
Denying this truth makes the pain worse when it inevitably arrives.
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Prepare for Suffering
Assume that suffering is inevitable and prepare for it.
Strengthen your weaknesses and develop the resilience to endure hardship.
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Life is full of suffering, acute and benign. We come down with the flu. We are hit with a costly expense. Someone with power over us abuses their responsibility. Someone we love lies or hurts us. People die. People commit crimes. Natural disasters strike.
All of this is commonplace and inevitable. It happens. Everyday. To us and to everyone else.
That would be bad enough, yet we choose to make this pain worse. How? By pretending we are immune from it. By assuming we will be exempted. Or that only those who have somehow deserved it will find themselves in the crosshairs of Fortune. Then we are surprised when our number comes up, and so we add to our troubles a sense of unfairness and a stumbling lack of preparedness. Our denial deprives us even of the ability to tense up before the blow lands.
“You should assume that there are many things ahead you will have to suffer,” Seneca reminds us. “Is anyone surprised at getting a chill in winter? Or getting seasick while on the sea? Or that they get bumped walking a city street? The mind is strong against things it has prepared for.”
This is premeditatio malorum. What is likely to happen? What can possibly happen? What are the tortures that life inflicts on human beings? And then, more importantly, am I ready for them? Have I strengthened my weak points? Do I have what it takes to endure this suffering?