A New Way of Being

The Self-Inquiry Questions That Can Stop The Mind

Mar 25, 2026
A deep dive into self-inquiry techniques that can quiet the thinking mind. Short, surprising questions like "When am I?" are explored alongside experiential prompts such as "Where am I?". The conversation covers intention, fear as a signpost, surrendering into presence, and why conceptual answers fall short. A teased relational tool for coaching is also mentioned.
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INSIGHT

When Am I Reveals Presence Beyond Thought

  • Thinking can only point to past or future so it never actually captures the present moment.
  • Asking When Am I? forces the mind to answer with 'now', which the thought already misses, revealing presence prior to thinking.
ADVICE

Ask Questions The Mind Can't Answer

  • Use questions the mind cannot answer, like When Am I, to expose the gap between thought and presence.
  • Because thought always refers to times beyond the actual now, such questions point to awareness prior to thinking.
ADVICE

Move Self-Inquiry Into Bodily Experience

  • Do the inquiry experientially by shifting attention to a bodily sensation like the soles of your feet.
  • Then notice the awareness that knows that sensation and see that the 'I' is not located in the head or anywhere in space.
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