Happier with Gretchen Rubin

A Little Happier: Do You Get Rattled Before Starting a Journey? Consider This Ritual.

Feb 2, 2026
A cozy piece on a Russian travel ritual where family members sit on suitcases to calm nerves before departing. Short reflections on shared slow-reading of War and Peace and how rituals help with transitions. Practical benefits like checking belongings and offering brief loving words are highlighted.
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ANECDOTE

Sitting On Suitcases Ritual

  • Gretchen Rubin describes the Russian ritual of "sitting on suitcases" before travel as a calming family practice.
  • She recounts how it turns frantic departures into quiet reflection and may reveal forgotten items.
INSIGHT

Rituals Ease Transitions

  • A brief shared ritual shifts mood from frantic to calm and prepares minds for transition.
  • Rituals create space to acknowledge relationships and say loving words before separation.
ADVICE

Pause Together Before Departing

  • Try sitting together in silence for a few moments before leaving on a trip to calm and focus.
  • Use that pause to mentally prepare, check forgotten items, and say a few loving words.
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