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Are we losing control of CHEMSEX? Emergency episode with Ignacio Labayen

Mar 16, 2025
Ignacio Labayen, founder of the charity Controlling Chemsex, dives into the harrowing realities of chemsex, which he describes as a significant crisis for the queer community. He explains the differences between chemsex and casual drug use, emphasizing the psychological issues that drive this behavior. Ignacio discusses the dangers of specific drugs, the dynamics of chemsex parties, and the serious risks of addiction. He shares insights on mental health impacts, the overwhelming stigma, and offers hope through recovery stories and available support for those affected.
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INSIGHT

Chemsex Masks Deep Psychosexual Needs

  • Psychosexual issues like premature ejaculation, low self-esteem, and social anxiety drive many to chemsex for temporary sexual confidence.
  • Ignacio highlights that the drugs mask underlying intimacy and body-image problems rather than solve them.
INSIGHT

Intent Distinguishes Chemsex From Recreational Use

  • Chemsex differs from recreational drug use by intent: drugs are taken specifically to enable or enhance sex.
  • Ignacio Labayen warns reliance develops when users prefer chemsex over sober intimacy.
ADVICE

Avoid Mixing G With Alcohol Or Sedatives

  • Avoid combining depressants like G with alcohol or other sedatives because overdose risk rises fast.
  • Wait between doses and be cautious: G's narrow safety margin can cause fatal overdoses, Ignacio says.
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