The Female Dating Strategy Lundy Bancroft Takes The Queens Inside The Minds of Angry & Controlling Men (Part 1)
Jan 12, 2022
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Don't Reduce Abuse To 'Narcissism'
- Bancroft warns against labeling abusers as 'narcissists' because it individualizes the problem.
- That shift obscures societal responsibility and frames abuse as private pathology instead of oppression.
Family Courts Are Increasingly Anti-Mother
- Bancroft says family courts have grown hostile to mothers and the maternal advantage disappeared decades ago.
- He frames current custody trends as increasingly pro-father and damaging for abused mothers.
Avoid Children With An Abusive Partner
- Do not have children with an abusive man to 'bind' him or force him to change; custody systems often empower abusers.
- Recognize that parental rights can tie you to an abuser indefinitely and complicate escape.