Grief 2 Growth How Grief Made Me a Better Parent: Lisa Woolery's Surprising Confession | EP 476
When Lisa Woolery found her husband Eric slumped over in his home office—gone at 53 from sudden heart failure—she never imagined what would come next. Not just the frozen assets, the angry 12-year-old, or walking 20,000 steps a day to process the pain. But this: grief made her a better parent.
In this honest, hope-filled conversation, Lisa shares how losing everything forced her to shed perfectionism, step into uncomfortable leadership, and discover that transformation often comes wrapped in tragedy. From getting kicked out of a grief group to sending her son to military boarding school, from hearing God "with her whole body" to healing generational wounds with her 82-year-old mother—Lisa's journey reveals what's possible when you take just one step forward every day.
About Lisa Woolery: Lisa is the voice behind The Widow's Comeback, a ministry supporting widows through grief and reinvention. Her memoir, The Widow's Comeback, chronicles the first two years after Eric's death with raw honesty and unexpected humor. She also created a 365-day grief calendar and a guided grief journal to help others process loss. Lisa lives in Kansas City with her daughter and travels the world solo—something the "old Lisa" never imagined doing.
Key Topics Covered:
- How grief made Lisa a better parent by stripping away perfectionism
- Processing grief through the body: 20,000 steps, breaking furniture, and physical release
- The surprising journey from "because I say so" to collaborative parenting
- Financial survival after sudden loss: frozen assets and practical widow wisdom
- The controversial choice to send her son to military boarding school (and why it worked)
- Trusting God as "husband" after losing her earthly partner
- Creating a new life: from homebody to solo world traveler and bestselling author
- Why "your life is not over" at 40, 50, 60, or beyond
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