Pornography Requires Connection and Community with Carol the Coach

Carol the Coach interviews Carl Thomas who believes we need to reframe our conversations around the issues of addiction and focus more on the importance of healing the individual rather than the “evils” of and the sex industry. Over 8+ years of experience in this field and he has never seen a man find true & lasting freedom simply by controlling his environment. He believes that all the filters, all the parental restrictions, all the legislation, all the censorship… none of that is going lead a man to freedom. Because at the end of the day, is not the problem. We are. Carl recognizes that is not a good thing and creates many problems for men, he doesn’t see as an “enemy” we must fight; but rather a distraction or an urlnhealthy option that we need to learn how to manage and avoid if we want to live with maximum effectiveness, purpose, and joy.  use is simply a choice. We just need to choose better. He believs that  this is a large reason why we have focused on community and connection as an avenue to true wholeness & freedom, not filters or technology. Because scientifically speaking, engaging in community and meaningful relationships improves brain health which leads to an increased capacity for better decision making and managing life’s challenges without the need for maladaptive resources like .