Segments Bonus IF I WERE YOU (from Patreon)
Feb 25, 2026
They joke about publishing logistics and Patreon perks. They tackle neighbor trash disputes and draining friendships. Conversations swing to threesomes, boundaries, and jealousy. They share stories about MDMA experiences and harm reduction. They compare moving cities and surviving a major blizzard.
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Escalate Trash Issues To City Services
- Do involve local authorities or 311 when shared trash overflows public spaces and the landlord refuses to act.
- Jake recommends calling city services to issue citations so the landlord faces financial consequences and will likely address the bins.
Stop Threesomes If They Entangle Your Best Friend
- Do avoid starting a romantic or sexual relationship that conflicts with a close friend's potential partner unless you plan to fully disclose it.
- Amir and Jake advise stopping threesomes with a woman who started seeing your best friend to avoid future guilt and betrayal.
Quit Casual Partner Arrangements Before Secrets Accumulate
- Avoid continuing casual shared-partner arrangements once they risk creating secrets with close friends.
- Amir warns you must be certain and polite when stopping threesomes to manage social fallout and guilt.