The Mating Grounds Podcast How To Answer When A Girl Asks How Many Women You've Slept With
Oct 1, 2014
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Avoid Precise Notch-Counting
- Deflect or reframe the question instead of giving an exact tally of past partners.
- Say you don't keep counts and emphasize experiences and respect rather than numbers.
The Question Is A Test, Not Data
- Women asking the question usually care more about how you answer than the raw number.
- They're fishing for experience level, player-status, and social intelligence.
Signal Discretion And Respect
- Signal you 'don't kiss and tell' to show respect and discretion about past partners.
- Emphasize privacy to reassure her you won't treat her like a statistic.