Best of Both Worlds Podcast The Secret Language of Work with Erin McGoff EP 451
Mar 24, 2026
Erin McGoff, career advisor and founder of Advice with Erin and author of The Secret Language of Work, helps people master strategic workplace communication. She discusses why interpersonal skills matter in the AI era. Short takes cover negotiating raises and maternity leave, asking for flexibility, handling job transitions, networking, and setting firm boundaries.
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Pandemic TikTok Sparked Erin's Career Pivot
- Erin McGoff pivoted from film and documentary work to career advising after her pandemic TikTok went viral.
- She deleted the app after virality but kept advising because DMs showed users negotiating raises and changing careers from her tips.
Know Policy And Frame Maternity As A Contribution Request
- For maternity leave, review company policy early and present your request positively as what you need to keep contributing.
- McGoff advises asking for specifics (e.g., three months leave plus three months flexibility) and knowing FMLA/short-term disability options.
Use Open Asks And Highlight Leverage For Flexibility
- When requesting flexibility, assess your leverage and audience, then make an open ask instead of a yes/no demand.
- McGoff recommends explaining your value (XYZ) and asking to discuss policy rather than demanding immediate approval.
