Happier with Gretchen Rubin

More Happier: Navigating New Year Pressure with Gretchen Rubin on "The Lazy Genius" [Revisited]

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Jan 10, 2026
Gretchen Rubin, a New York Times bestselling author and happiness expert, joins host Kendra Adachi to tackle the anxiety of fresh starts. They dive into how perfectionism often manifests as anxiety and suggest embracing a lazy approach to focus on what truly matters. The duo discusses the importance of accepting what you don’t enjoy, the power of a 'not doing' list, and the role of daily rituals in sustaining well-being. They also highlight the significance of sleep as a foundational habit. Get ready to reclaim your January!
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INSIGHT

Accept Yourself While Expecting More

  • Mature adulthood balances self-acceptance with expecting more from yourself.
  • Know which things you can change and which you should gracefully accept.
ADVICE

Use Fresh Starts To Decide Realistically

  • Use fresh starts to plan realistically or defer goals honestly.
  • Decide whether to integrate a goal now or shelve it to avoid discouragement.
ANECDOTE

The Skiing Story: Losing Personal Likes

  • Gretchen met a woman who described skiing enthusiastically, then admitted she also didn't like skiing.
  • The story shows how people lose touch with what they truly enjoy while following social expectations.
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